Why should you never marry a man with kids?

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  • Why should you never marry a man with kids?


Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 06:04
are you ready to become their mom?
Answer #2 | 23/12 2013 06:09
If you can't see why you two should not remain together, I don't know what more to tell you....
Answer #3 | 23/12 2013 06:08
I would not put up with that, he is disrespecting you as the new woman in his life and the kids are gong to do more than spit your food out, that was rude. I honestly, think you will not be happy with him, its someone for you out there it just not him, follow your gut instincts. If you are feeling tasteless now about him, imagine how it will be once you go ahead and marry him.
Answer #4 | 23/12 2013 06:06
There are so many huge red warning flags waving in your face. If I were you I would postpone at a minimum and take time to decide what to do. It does not sound like marriage is a good idea for the two of you. This is not about 'never marrying a man with kids' - there is so many more issues here...
Answer #5 | 23/12 2013 06:05
run and run like the wind you cannot discipline his children?? but expected to be a cash machine and maid to them?? pffffffffffffffft that, and the fact you have had the choice of having children of your own taken without regard are reasons enough he doesnt love you or respect you and i suspect the moment she clicks her fingers he will run back to her get out of this mess while you can
Answer #6 | 23/12 2013 06:13
This marriage will not bring you happiness since he lacks total respect and love for you Best of luck for your future John
Answer #7 | 23/12 2013 06:24
There is nothing wrong with him having kids its just the way your being treated. He should give money but just for the kids. The ex needs to have some boundaries and back off. If you will be the step mom you have to be able to discipline them some type of way. You will fill in as their mom and they need to respect you. Also if you want to have kids of your own than I would just break up with him. It seems like you will be more like a nanny.
Answer #8 | 23/12 2013 11:54
Marriage isn't for you. You don't marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy. More than that, your marriage isn't for yourself, you're marrying for a family. Not just for the in-laws and all of that nonsense, but for your future children. Who do you want to help you raise them? Who do you want to influence them? Marriage isn't for you. It's not about you. Marriage is about the person you married.
Answer #9 | 23/12 2013 09:12
Don't do it. You don't know if his kids will respect you and there wil be lots of problems down the road. If you already have a cold feet about this then I recommend that you run while you still can. Someone who doesn't discipline their kids? That means the kids will run all over you. Besides he doesn't want any kids with you? That's a red flag. He doesn't want to pay for child support if you guys don't work out. There's lots of single men out there, you just can't rush yourself thinking that you are in love when you're not deep inside. Stay on the safe zone and love yourself more because if you don't, no one will.
Answer #10 | 23/12 2013 07:53
Time for you to run and I mean fast. Never trust YOUR money with a man you hardly know.
Answer #11 | 23/12 2013 06:54
Congrats on your full time babby sitting job!

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