Why is it that we want to be loved by all. But in reality it is just impossible.?

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  • Why is it that we want to be loved by all. But in reality it is just impossible.?


Answer #1 | 19/12 2013 20:48
It is not impossible. It can be possible if you are doing only good and you have good mind always. Always behave same and and it must be good . We all like to hear good words from others but we forget that others also have a heart they also like to hear good from you. Find time for helping others and you can share your happiness and can be happy in others happiness.
Answer #2 | 19/12 2013 21:20
we are love or u're just experiencing ur own reality, maybe being insecure & u're trying to grow & learn from that unique experience all experiences are ever a waste woops are *never a waste ;D <3
Answer #3 | 19/12 2013 21:19
(1) I don't wish to be loved by all, so there's no "we" to it. Speak for yourself. (2) The reason has more to do with psychology than philosophy, so try the psychology forum too.
Answer #4 | 19/12 2013 20:52
Its cuz we have heart we have emotions,feelings..frm the day we were born we must have had the habit of people around us loving us all the time.. so that led to our desire and expectation of wanting others to love us It gives us strength..makes us feel special..its food to our soul Now the answer to why its impossible..its apparant. People are very busy and unhappy with their own lives..they will hardly have time to look after you now
Answer #5 | 19/12 2013 20:51
Because love is selfish and danger thing...
Answer #6 | 19/12 2013 22:01
Love is not materialistic, Instead it's beyond metaphysics. Your question depicts that you expect love, whereas, expecting love is to spoil the beauty of it. Why expect, since love descends down automatically, and you actually can't force it. My second idea is that if you wish to be loved, by all, start spreading love all around. Once you get rid of the hatred within yourself, you'll soon see positive results. Nature doesn't work the way we think and operate. Rather on the contrary, the universe is already full of bliss, but it is the human, who tries to bound things into some sort of calculation, and that's where he is mistaken. Something that is beyond human science, logic, and mathematics, can't be understood using mind, and your worldly equipment. Love all, and gain love in turn. That's how I think and operate. And would like to suggest the same to you dear!!
Answer #7 | 19/12 2013 22:21
being loved by all sorta makes u 2 faced. People usually like u cuz they can relate to u or u have traits that they find likeable. Everyone in the world is different but if they all love u that means u show everyone what they want to see from u and that is selling out. people do this when they are not confident with themselves. when u truly believe in urself and u know who u are, ull be relatively consistent. this dosnt mean ill be the same forever because sometimes u realized certain things were doing in the past were wrong... everyday u learn something knew so ur bound to change, but the very essence of u should always be the same. this will make u love by a group of people and maybe not so much in another group.
Answer #8 | 20/12 2013 04:50
No cannot say that it is impossible. If you do good things in your life and help others when they are i need then you will be loved by all.
Answer #9 | 20/12 2013 04:03
You could probably average 2 per hour, working 8 hour days. Boy you'd get pretty sore.
Answer #10 | 19/12 2013 23:39
i am always wondering how come my mom is giving me a lot and lot and i am in no way giving here the same!!?? so i hope we need more and fail giving as equal
Answer #11 | 19/12 2013 22:21
Totalitarian society does not allow us to love. Remembered tribal instincts and human nature cause us to want to connect and be loved. Because we are not allowed to achieve this goal we are inherently lonely.
Answer #12 | 19/12 2013 23:11
Your kind of just playing a game. You want a certain reaction from people that fits into your predefined box of words when in reality everyone is operating a completely different version of reality than you.

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