Why i'm so weak in social life? I'm such as afraid of people?

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  • Why i'm so weak in social life? I'm such as afraid of people?


Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 07:27
It is primarily a psychological difficulty, not a philosophical one. Try asking in the psychology forum, or perhaps here:
Answer #2 | 23/12 2013 07:57
you and me plus a lot of other people are in the same boat. Just letting you know that you are not the only one who is going through this. The best advice I can give you is to step out of your comfort zone and keep doing it until it becomes a habit. Its really hard and you have to be very patient. But if you don't start now you will never face your fear.
Answer #3 | 23/12 2013 08:19
It's all about perspective. You might not be openly acknowledged by your peers, but then you might also not be scolded by your peers either. If not being scolded is your reference point, you are successful. If your reference point is having everyone acknowledge you when you enter the room and feel comfortable to approach you, then you might currently see where you are now as failing. It is important to come up with what you would like your reference to be, that is, decide what social expectations you think are healthy for you at this time in your life. Once that is defined, you are able to do research and come up with a schedule of little objective that will help you achieve that. I hope that helps.
Answer #4 | 23/12 2013 22:39
It's probably because you're not sure what you should do!

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