Why do you think my boyfriend gave up on me so easily?

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  • Why do you think my boyfriend gave up on me so easily?


Answer #1 | 28/12 2013 22:02
Question: When did he seem to stop giving attention? How long ago? Christmas time (before, during, and after) is a VERY STRESSFUL time for many people.
Answer #2 | 28/12 2013 22:04
Give both of you some time to air out and think about everything. If you know that he is the one & you know it for sure, try to talk to him one last time. Ask him questions about why he was treating you that way. If he's a nice guy and respects you then you guys will have another chance. I know how you feel and its an ugly feeling. Do your best to be positive and do things you enjoy doing. :)
Answer #3 | 28/12 2013 22:05
I really felt after reading this like he was just looking for a way to get out. He made no effort whatsoever to fix things with you. Don't believe the bs like he's sorry he hurt you and he's not worth your tears, he's lying to you because he wants you to think he's hurting. Stop begging him when he clearly doesn't want to bewith you anymore. You can't beg someone to love you back, that's not love. Move on, it's over. Guys a loser, you don't want to end up with a loser. Chin up, head high.
Answer #4 | 28/12 2013 22:09
yeh that type of pain is hard. First, you need to ask yourself what things you were thinking to make you decide to break up with him. Honestly both you and him are not sure of the relationship. It always hurts sooo bad when a break up occurs and there are feelings there. WE wonder what will I do now? How do I live without him? If you both were sure of the relationship, you would not be at this point. So basically what you need to decide right now is to go through the pain and suffering of ending this relationship once and for all? Or trying to make it work again, only to find yourself writing this letter, again, in the need to be the one to let go.
Answer #5 | 28/12 2013 22:15
Firstly apologize to him in person. You are very sorry for your actions, but you lost your patience and understanding over his issue regarding Christmas. (You could have offered to help out, but did you?) At the moment he's hurt and you'll have to wait for him to calm down. He may have well chased you before, but he certainly won't be playing any more chasing games. Explain to him what you hoped was going to happen, but didn't. Tell him you still have feelings for him and you will work on your patience and understanding better. Since you both will be together you both have to work something out, but remember he'll have a different view of you now. You have to be honest with him on how you wish things to be.

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