What would you do if your husband got another woman pregnant?

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  • What would you do if your husband got another woman pregnant?


Answer #1 | 22/12 2013 22:20
How do you feel about him paying child support for this kid? Your husband paying child support is going to impact your life. Then factor in visitations, milestones, Christmas, birthdays, etc. Are you up for dealing with this? Since you and your husband do NOT have any kids together, I think you should cut your losses. Let him go.....
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Answer #2 | 22/12 2013 21:46
I got nothing. That must be hard.
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Answer #3 | 22/12 2013 23:07
You deserve someone who will love you and if you do every decide to take a break with someone else in another relationship for them not to sleep with another woman. Sorry and good luck, A Brutally Honest Person
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Answer #4 | 23/12 2013 06:33
Get a divorce ASAP
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Answer #5 | 22/12 2013 21:54
You'd be the step mom, so you'd interact with the kid, but not have any rights yourself. I don't think I'd be mad at the kid, but I'd probably be unable to look at my husband or the kids mom ever again. I can't advize you here, because I know this is a situation I'd be unable to handle. If you can, more power to you, I guess.
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Answer #6 | 22/12 2013 22:12
You were still married. Be mad. Be very mad. Divorce. Seriously. You deserve better than this situation and him.
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Answer #7 | 22/12 2013 21:56
You need to file for a divorce. Your marriage will never be the same. Once someone steps out, all the trust you had for that person is gone. You will never look or feel the same about him again. I know that you are hurting, but only hurt for a while and get it over with. Dont hurt for the rest of your life with him. I wish you the best of luck on whatever decision you choose.
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Answer #8 | 22/12 2013 23:02
Just because you two separated for 5 months is not a justification for a married man to be entering into another relationship let alone fathering a child. If you want someone to be angry at, you're right, it's not the unborn child, it's your unfaithful husband! If he wanted to start a relationship with someone else, he should have divorced you first. I would not put up with the aftermath of this situation personally. It's obvious your marriage was in trouble in the first place, and if his behavior is any indication of the kind of man he is, then I'd get a divorce and move on with my life. I certainly wouldn't allow this marriage to continue so that he can hide behind it like a little boy. I suspect that's exactly what he's doing though! And then he has the nerve to say he wants to be involved in the kids life. Watch how fast that changes when he becomes financially responsible as well. In all of this the most glaring thing I see is that your husband has only taken in to consideration what he wants, with no apparent regard to how this would make you feel or how this would affect you. He sounds like an incredibly selfish person to me. You deserve to be treated better than this and unfortunately, I don't see things changing as long as you allow a man to treat you as an afterthought.
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