I've been in your shoes. At times like these,all they want is a big hug. Not muh words are needed. Just let her know you're there for her. I told my friend I was so sorry it had to happen and that everything would be alright,then I gave her big,long hug. We both cried our hearts out but we felt way better. I'm sorry for her loss and I hope this helps,even if a little
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