What do I do from here?

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Answer #1 | 30/12 2013 01:06
What exactly do you love about this loser? That he cheats on you? That he lies to you? That he doesn't have anything to do with his children? You must really have a desire for pain. We will all tell you to leave this jerk but you're probably not going to do it. You're repeating some kind of pattern, and if you left him, you'd probably just fall for the next loser who treats you badly. You need some serious counseling to find out why you would put up with someone treating you this way.
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Answer #2 | 30/12 2013 01:10
You're kidding yourself. He's not going to stop. Why should he? You keep taking him back. My first marriage was for 17 years, he had 4 affairs... I got tired of it, packed up mine and our children's things and NEVER LOOKED BACK! One of the best decisions I had ever made. I had to love me because he sure didn't. What made me finally say yes I am tired of it is when our oldest daughter found his love letters between him and his mistress and she asked, Mom when are you going to get tired of this? I never wanted my child to experience that and it made me sick to my stomach! What is it going to take before you finally have had enough? When he gets you sick with an STD? Remember AIDS is still alive and well. It took along time for me to get back out there and start dating again because I had to work on me and all of the damage that I allowed my ex to cause.I have since married an amazing man that loves me and my babies to the moon and back! Get some counseling and work on you. Good luck and best wishes!

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