should i leave my girlfriend who is 8 months pregnant with my child?

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  • should i leave my girlfriend who is 8 months pregnant with my child?


Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 06:04
Well ... what I would say is that ... You should tell her how you're feeling about the whole situation ... and see if she understands ... say you'll be around for your child and her though but say that you're not ready to settle down just yet. I mean don't move halfway across the world (stay local) ...
Answer #2 | 23/12 2013 06:14
No.Leaving her would be rude.Do you really want that baby to grow up without a real father?think about it.that's YOUR baby.YOUR flesh and blood.YOUR child!I understand that you're scared,but every new dad is,and I promise you,your daddy instincts will come naturally as you go along.No one is born a perfect father,and you'll learn and you'll be a great dad.Once that baby is born,you'll just know what to do.Helping her raise that kid is gonna be the best part of your life,trust me :)
Answer #3 | 23/12 2013 06:56
Leaving her would be stupid. That baby is a part of your life now. And I also know a guy who didn't like kids and never wanted any with his wife. But she got pregnant and he loves his baby more than anything in the world. Also, if u left now, the kid will never have a dad to look up to and he/she may even come looking for u years later. Trust me, if u abandon them now, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. You'll miss out on the amazing opportunities that come with being a dad. You have a responsibility now with that child, don't waste it.
Answer #4 | 23/12 2013 10:17
Don't you dare!! Ok this girl sounds so nice and you're the one that got her pregnant ok. If u can't be around children u gotta learn cause this ain't any old kid it's YOUR kid and you will learn to love him/her you'd be surprised. Ok and if you leave her not only will she hate you your kid will hate you and I promise this to you now s/he will see you as the devil and one day they will go to look for you and they WILL find you and tell you, and your both pregnant she's just the one carrying YOUR baby so your not leaving her to be a single mum your leaving your kid, you got to be committed and try as hard as you can to make things right with or without a baby

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