Should i give her an ultimatum?

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  • Should i give her an ultimatum?


Answer #1 | 02/01 2014 12:10
you both still act like you are in HS.
Answer #2 | 02/01 2014 12:10
If you want a commitment from her and she isnt going to be your girlfriend then call it a day with her.Just stop seeing her and get on with your own life.Next time you start dating find out in the first few dates if they are looking for a boyfriend relationship.At least find out if they want a relationship or not.You can then hang around or move on. Your female friend isnt going to be your girlfriend.You just wasted a year.Its time to let go and move on.She'll get the message when you tell her you dont want to be with her anymore.She has no rights to complain.If she wanted a commitment she had her chance and she blew it.Treat her family nice if they contact you.
Answer #3 | 02/01 2014 12:30
Aren't you tired of the 'come here' 'go away' dance? Seriously, she wants all the benefits of a relationship without any of the responsibility of a relationship. She's comfortable. Personally, I'd sit her down and tell her what my expectations/needs are in relationship (I just want to date around, I will be seeing other people. OR I'm looking for a long term relationship with the possibility of marriage. - and say 'if you don't want the same thing, then maybe we aren't a good match for each other.) It's not an ultimatum, it's an honest conversation about what you really want.

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