my question is my bf wants me to gain weight and it hurts. I really need help someone! please?

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  • my question is my bf wants me to gain weight and it hurts. I really need help someone! please?


Answer #1 | 20/12 2013 00:36
What a controlling jerk! Everyone has the right to run their own eating habits. Tell him that stuffing yourself makes you feel ill. You are naturally small and slender. If he want a tubby girl who will continue to gain weight until she looks like an elephant, let him go find one. He'll never be happy with your particular looks. Next thing you know, he'll be urging you to get plastic surgery ... Since your self-confidence is a bit dented these days, I think you'll be healthier without him.
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Answer #2 | 20/12 2013 00:36
It's your body, if you don't want to put on weight, and you're not unhealthily underweight, then don't. He has no right to expect you to alter yourself like that to adhere to whatever he finds attractive. Furthermore, if you haven't already told him that it makes you feel uncomfortable, you need to. If he continues to do it after that, then get rid of him. The way you describe him makes him seem misogynistic, controlling , unempathetic of your feelings, and selfish. Don't change yourself for him.
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Answer #3 | 20/12 2013 00:36
Don't gain weight just because he thinks you should. As long as you eat healthy and don't have any health issues related to not having enough vitamins and minerals in your body then you're fine. And if he can't see that then he isn't any good for you.
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Answer #4 | 20/12 2013 00:37
young lady let no one bully u not even your so called boyfriend.he likes them with flesh so why did he ask you out.was he blind at that moment, I guess they were flesh girls out they at the moment but he chose you hence he should learn to leave with the choice he made..if you are happy with your self tell your boyfriend you breaking up with him so that you give him a chance to be happy with the flesh ones...his soooo sickening
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Answer #5 | 20/12 2013 00:40
I think he's not the right man for you. He should like u and take you for who u are
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Answer #6 | 20/12 2013 07:50
if you really love him though then explain it to him (I'm sorry thinking about this situation gives me a head ache I'll ask my kitten to answer this later)
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Answer #7 | 20/12 2013 06:33
You do not need a bf that treats you this way or expects you unreasonably to conform to what HE wants, there are plenty of nice guys out there....find one . Incidentally 100lbs and 5'2 you are perfect.
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Answer #8 | 20/12 2013 00:46
I also cut myself younger though. And i struggled with my weight but i had always thought i was too fat. Plus i struggled with depression amd i still struggle with some depression but i got help from my normal doctor. But the best thing was when i met my boyfriend whp loves me NO matter what. You need to see if he can accept you And let him know that making comments all the things that he is doing. Is not ok with you. He can't change then end it. After that, which ever way your relationship goes. You need to start being ok whith yourself.
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