My husband walked out on me for another woman. He lies to everyone and says that there is no other woman?

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  • My husband walked out on me for another woman. He lies to everyone and says that there is no other woman?


Answer #1 | 22/12 2013 22:48
Yes, people are often that evil and that cruel, or maybe that stupid. Someone once said that a man who cheats on his wife will sooner or later cheat on his mistress. This man you love will mess up his new life too. This is not the kind of man you want. The best thing you can do is learn to find him and his behavior repulsive so you can fall out of love.
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Answer #2 | 22/12 2013 22:48
U will get use to it I promise. And u will be fine
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Answer #3 | 22/12 2013 22:52
Women want what they don't have. Why? Because its a self esteem thing we have. But, some women take it way too far. I, myself, despise women who destroy long term relationships and marriages. But, it is more the man's fault than the woman in my opinion. In the end, it is their decision.
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Answer #4 | 22/12 2013 22:58
Obviously she didn't drag him kicking and screaming away from u. He owns half the evil if he is with her, after all its his choice. No woman can take a man away from his happy home with his wife, why would he or any other sane man leave that?
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Answer #5 | 23/12 2013 00:01
My mother lost her husband (my father) this way, her marriage fell apart and so she decided to ruin my parents marriage at the same time. While this was going on I was married for 8 years became pregnant with my first child, and gave birth to a little girl. I told my father that it wouldn't be right to bring any of his girlfriends around to see me because I was going through postpartum depression and getting used to being a full time mom for the first time. My father agreed and so that was that. Well his girlfriend decided for herself that she was going to force herself on me and my husband and my child, by this time I was pregnant with child number 2 and my father's girlfriend started getting baby fever and became not only jealous of my mother being the grandmother to my children but jealous of me that she wasn't the mother to my children, it got so serious that she ended up going to my daughter's daycare and taking off with my eldest daughter. I got her back, my husband and I got a restraining order against her, my father if he wanted to be a normal grandfather he could come around to see my children but not her. This woman was dangerous, she was mad at me and still is, she blames me that I didn't give up my daughter to give to her. If you have any children and she wants your children too don't let her near. My mother was so upset because of all this going on, she was also recovering from a cancer surgery too, and this woman took my father away from my mother, tried to destroy my sister's profession to the point where she had to move out of the country. My children have grown and are adults now, but they feel strange being around my father's wife. Just make sure she doesn't try to take your children too.
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Answer #6 | 23/12 2013 03:00
She didn't "take" anything that your HUSBAND wasn't CHOOSING to give away. Without him going looking, nothing could have/would have happened. And even if you do manage to "get him back" that is NOT going to fix the reason he went outside of the marriage. Its not going to make you happy in the long run, and its not going to fix HIM, or WHY he did this. How could she do this? Chances are he was lying to her "I'm not with my wife...we are only together for the kids...we are never intimate wife cheats/is cold/doesn't care...our marriage is dead....we just share a house..." and any of a thousand other lies, just as he was capable of lying to you to start/hide this affair. So he is capable of lying to BOTH of the women he professed to love. And since you had to snoop to find out the truth, he has still not CHOSEN to be honest with you, even at this point.
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Answer #7 | 22/12 2013 22:50
I'm sorry that you are hurting.. I think that some people are just selfish. I also think that you can't put all the blame on this woman, two people are involved in cheating. Do you think you can forgive your husband? I think that is the first step, if you can forgive him then you'll be able to move forward, I don't know if you'll end up together again but if you can forgive him for this then you'll feel better as well.
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