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My husband is very abusive; what should I do?

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Answer #1 | 05/01 2014 11:27
Why are you still with him?
Answer #2 | 05/01 2014 11:35
You don't have to feel bad for yourself, and is he drinking? Because if yes maybe that's the problem and you should ask for help from your love ones, you shouldn't stay with him, call for help and leave as soon as possible
Answer #3 | 05/01 2014 11:32
Do not wait until you get a job. Move out today. Ask your family or a friend to help you out until you get a job. Once you are on your feet, then decide if you want to divorce him or if you want to get help from a marriage counsellor.
Answer #4 | 05/01 2014 11:29
split up with him! get a divorce, NOW
Answer #5 | 05/01 2014 11:29
Don't wait till you find a job, call your parents or ask a friend if you can stay with them.
Answer #6 | 05/01 2014 11:36
why don't u divorce him? better to live alone and happily then living with a monster like this. just push him out from your life.
Answer #7 | 05/01 2014 11:43
So, he's a jerk and a pothead! It sounds like your prospects are better than that since you now have a degree. You should find a good job and bail!
Answer #8 | 05/01 2014 19:02
You may not be fat or ugly, but you sure are stupid for staying with him.
Answer #9 | 05/01 2014 13:58
Find someone else to stay with until you get a job and move now. Be prepared to take some heat from others that think he's just such a great guy. He's a bully.
Answer #10 | 05/01 2014 12:47
He put you through college, didn't he? Supported you while you pursued your personal ambition. Yeah. Well, how about you build a lego structure and share with him that the bricks are love and every time he hurts you, insults you and is simply dreadful, you take down bricks. So that there is a visual attached to the chiseling of your love. Chunk by chunk, the marriage is getting chiseled. That means that, sometimes, it can be rebuilt too. Unless all you want is out. If that is the case, then leave. But send him payments for that education he funded. Sounds like you haven't been married long if you haven't ever financially contributed to your marriage.
Answer #11 | 05/01 2014 11:55
Move out. He's a typical pot smoker feels bad he can't quit so he is mean to everybody else

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