My dad is ruining my life??

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  • My dad is ruining my life??


Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 20:21
stay strong and realize that it wont always be like this. it may take time or fate, but at some point you will be in a very different place, and he will no longer have any effect on your life, you will be in charge.(hope your ready). just think, you still have 60+ years in which to live your life and experience all it has to offer, your drunkard of a father is on his way out.
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Answer #2 | 25/12 2013 13:20
It might sound impossible thing to do....but stop paying attention and go about your business like it is all normal . He is as he is and he will not change make peace with it and look into ways of making your life better instead of looking at him as a reason for your life being bad .
Answer #3 | 23/12 2013 20:08
It sounds like unless you have another relative to stay with or some friend's place to go to, you might have to start looking for a job and then go from there. Once you find a job, maybe you can move into an apartment with some friends. There are also rooms for rent at houses and apartments if you look online. So I guess the order of operations is this: - Find somewhere to go live now (relative/friend) - If you can't go anywhere now, start figuring out what you can do (find a job and then a place to live) ***You probably shouldn't tell your parents that you plan to leave or else they might kick you out. - Once you have a job - look for places to live. - Get the heck out of there. From personal life experience, sometimes it takes hard work while you are in a bad place to dig yourself out of a hole. Just remember that this is temporary. You are 18 and have your whole life in front of you. Just keep trying to get out of this bad situation and realize that you shouldn't take what your father says to heart. He clearly is dealing with his own problems and taking them on out you. Best of luck! It does get better!
Answer #4 | 23/12 2013 20:03
It will be ok
Answer #5 | 24/12 2013 01:57
you should make yourself be stronger,not just body but also heart. why can't you find a job to make yourself live without them. as you are 18,not a child any more,you can work to feed yourself. only economic independence will help you.

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