FIND THE ANSWERS

Loving and accepting and forgiving - all of this is too hard?

Answer this question

  • Loving and accepting and forgiving - all of this is too hard?


Answers

Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 17:59
This is okay. Sometimes friendships and relationships dont work out. If a person isnt going to mame me happy i accept that and take them out of my life. I think we're supposed to forgive to achieve pure human perfectness, though everyone knows that isn't possible. And we do learn from our mistakes, to be able to not do them again.
Answer #2 | 23/12 2013 18:06
Yes, it is hard to bring these things to victory in our lives. We fail everyday. Learning to forgive is the power source to a greater you. Forgive and accept things as they are and fly like an eagle, you have this strength. :)
Answer #3 | 23/12 2013 18:03
It is hard to forgive or trust if your trust has been tested. Maybe it is a test. Who knows. But I myself have this problem and now I am just becoming an angry old lady. I live with someone that I cant trust, and I pray for this person. Or I need to pray more for them. Any way. love hurts and it seems that it will never change. Maybe we need to get away from this person if able.
Answer #4 | 23/12 2013 18:03
It's ok to fail when accepting and forgiving and yet we all want to be accepted and forgiven. To stop is to allow ourselves to give into being non human. You are admirable. Keep on....ultimately, you shall not fail.
Answer #5 | 23/12 2013 18:10
the more loving that you become, the more it will all come with ease. you must first understand what love is to accomplish such task though. love is not yourself, but the other person. it is the arch enemy of selfishness. love in itself is forgiving, patient, selfless, accepting, admiring, and awe-inspiring. it may be hard at first, but that's because you haven't learned how to do it thoroughly yet. as humans, we are about ourselves, even when we get into a relationship it sometimes is still about us, and the happiness we receive and reap from another, but once we aren't satisfied anymore we just leave. love is unconditional although, despite the feeling being had, love is a decision. once you understand, maybe you can apply better.
Answer #6 | 23/12 2013 18:31
It is best to philosophize everything and remain happy and peaceful in life. In future please take time to work. It is the prize of success. I mean hard work with dedication. Take time to think; it is the source of power; and Take time to read; it is the foundation of your wisdom.
Answer #7 | 24/12 2013 05:06
In this day and age with so many things going on it is hard to stay on top of all of it. Especially where other people are concerned. Even more so if they are our loved ones. Life can be pretty turbulent with them at times. I find that many times throughout the day I have to renew myself afresh and reflect a moment to find the most objective way around or through the person or situation of the moment. Each moment is new so we also must be new to meet each moment. No two moments are the same anymore. So we have to be loving and the better person especially if the other person is not able to.
Answer #8 | 23/12 2013 20:35
just because i want it, doesn't mean it is needed. stay sharp.
Answer #9 | 23/12 2013 19:23
I think, YES, It is Hard, But, We Can Make it Less Hard , While Letting Ourselves in Their Position with Our Mind and Feeling Us as They are and Reduce Our Pressure and Keep Our Better Feelings with Somewhat ACCEPTABLE and We Can CHANGE Our HARDNESS ,Without Changing Our BETTERMENT.
Answer #10 | 23/12 2013 18:34
yes it is hard it it wont come easy we have to constantly use our will and ask for support in this world it is not what comes naturally to people they know the act of it but not the pain of going deep down in your heart and seeing why your unforgiving unloving we are taught to justify our ways and actions based on a lie

Possible answer