Is this just cause to me to get dumped? Please help?

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  • Is this just cause to me to get dumped? Please help?


Answer #1 | 20/12 2013 05:52
May b U shld just accept him seeing that U hav feelings for him and he realsed his
Answer #2 | 20/12 2013 05:54
I think he's being completely selfish & hypocritical on this. He's slept with tons of women, while you were committed to him. & he had a "surprise brithday" with one of his girl friends? I think he should have cancelled on the other girl because he already had plans with you & he shouldn't have broke those plans with you. I'd drop this guy & forget about him, girl. Best of luck. XO
Answer #3 | 20/12 2013 05:57
Ending a relationship is not a matter of "fairness." It's not fair that people just lose attraction to each other, or don't feel like putting in the work to fix what might be resolvable problems, but it happens anyway. And ultimately, if you try to keep someone with you who doesn't want to be there or who will only do it under conditions you find unacceptable, you're being more unfair to yourself than they are. I think the real question here is: you already knew he was self-centered from the way he treated you on his birthday. (Doesn't matter that you weren't committed; you still had plans.) Why did you think he'd be able to change so dramatically? Don't wait for him to dump you; tell him you're not going to be held accountable for what you did while he was messing around, and end it yourself.
Answer #4 | 20/12 2013 06:13
Do you know why he contacted you after 6 months of no contact? It's because the other girls he was seeing were one-by-one rejecting him and ending those relationships. When he had no girls left, he contacted "Old Reliable" to see if you were available. Then he said a few things you might read in a romance novel: "We have a history. It was fate. You're the only one for me. We were meant to be together. I realized how much I missed you." You are his 'backup' girl. And now he has the nerve to get all demanding because you were with another guy. And there he had been with all those girls. Stay clear of him. If he was so desirable, then all those other girls would not have dumped him.

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