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IS IT TOO SOON 3 MONTHS AFTER A SPOUSE DEATH TO DATE? WE HAD A ROCKY MARRIAGE, HE CHEATED SEVERAL TIME AND HAD A BABY.?

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  • IS IT TOO SOON 3 MONTHS AFTER A SPOUSE DEATH TO DATE? WE HAD A ROCKY MARRIAGE, HE CHEATED SEVERAL TIME AND HAD A BABY.?


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Answer #1 | 30/10 2015 22:29
The sooner you start dating after divorce, or the death of a spouse, the sooner the healing process will begin. Even if you don't feel like it, go out there and date! It well help you!! b
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Answer #2 | 30/10 2015 20:37
you should not worry about convention.... just stat dating and ,live your life how you see fit.
Answer #3 | 30/10 2015 21:05
Perfectly acceptable, considering.
Answer #4 | 30/10 2015 21:20
that is solely up to you. if you feel like it is time to date then do that. if you had a bad marriage there is no reason to pretend that you are mourning when you are not. you have a life to live so live it.
Answer #5 | 30/10 2015 20:31
It's my opinion that 3 months should be an adequate amount of time to show your respect for your late hubby. You may want to be a bit discrete about starting a new relationship for a while just to keep people from making negative comments.
Answer #6 | 30/10 2015 20:07
It is not a matter of whether or not you were happy with him. It is a matter of how much YOU have cleared away YOUR inner issues. Honey, if you married a man who was a bad spouse, it is because YOUR unconscious knew this and deliberately chose him. This makes no conscious sense to us, but we can hold negative views about us deep in our brain that we are not consciously aware of .. and THAT is what causes our attraction. So if you chose a bad man for a husband, the NEXT man you choose will ALSO be a bad man. UNTIL you face and resolve your unconscious issues that are causing you to pick men who will not treat you well Doesn't matter whether you wait 3 months or 3 decades ... as long as you still have these unconscious issues you will continue to pick only men who make you miserable. I suggest you take your time getting some therapy instead, to resolve these issues.
Answer #7 | 30/10 2015 14:01
There is no 'too soon' if you are emotionally ready. Sounds like that marriage was over (emotionally) long before his death.
Answer #8 | 30/10 2015 15:29
The sooner you start dating after divorce, or the death of a spouse, the sooner the healing process will begin. Even if you don't feel like it, go out there and date! It well help you!! b
Answer #9 | 30/10 2015 19:38
Too soon for a serious relationship, but have some fun.
Answer #10 | 30/10 2015 22:38
My answer NO not because it is wrong but you asked the question means you are not ready -- and WORSE you made excuses - Excuses are the biggest problem in all relationships do not date until you stop making excuse for all things, and that include money and spending if that is a problem one part of that is,, do what you know is right and stop worrying about what people think or feel But I would say,, what is in the past is in the past -- do not bring the bad things up anymore confession is not good for the soul or relationships no matter what the hippies and priest say
Answer #11 | 31/10 2015 00:02
Nope, the fact that he cheated, forget it and date ASAP, do if for your happiness
Answer #12 | 30/10 2015 19:41
If you feel ready, then you could try it. Just be careful with yourself. If you start suspecting your new boyfriends of cheating or picking fights with them because something they did reminds you of your late husband, then you will know that you aren't ready yet. Sorry for your loss, even if your marriage wasn't perfect, you must have had some love for him.
Answer #13 | 30/10 2015 20:33
Go out and meet people, but don't go for something serious. While it is unfortunate that your husband died, the carnage he left behind was quite a lot. This time around, be more picky in choosing your next husband.
Answer #14 | 30/10 2015 21:01
There is no 'too soon' if you are emotionally ready. Sounds like that marriage was over (emotionally) long before his death.
Answer #15 | 31/10 2015 00:16
No it's not. You are allowed to move on with your life and there is no where written you have to wait a certain amount of time to start dating someone else. It's not disrespectful just very personal and entirely up to you of how you want to live your life. Don't feel guilty either. Hope this helps? Good luck
Answer #16 | 30/10 2015 21:11
Whenever you feel like you are ready, noone can answer that but you. Dont let others try to influence you to something you may or may not be ready for. And if you do try dating and dont feel comfortable, there is your answer.
Answer #17 | 31/10 2015 00:05
If you have to ask then its too soon.
Answer #18 | 02/11 2015 19:43
All that matters is if you feel you are ready.
Answer #19 | 30/10 2015 19:37
no. you don't have to put your life on hold because you're a widow. try to be more careful this time, and select someone with good character.
Answer #20 | 30/10 2015 19:42
This is no longer the old days when a widow or widower had to wait a certain period to get involved again. You can date again as soon as you feel comfortable in doing so.Good luck. When you are ready. You need to make sure that you are not just acting out, or rebounding. You need to fully come to terms with your grief on your own, and then you can become involved with someone. Otherwise you run the risk of everyone getting hurt. So yeah no time frame can tell you when you are ready. Only you will know that, but make sure you give yourself lots of time to heal. I am sorry for your loss, and best of luck for your future.That means pretty much recovered from the loss and not making poor choices. this might sound weird, but the way i see it is that..the spouse who died is not coming back. the only reason to "wait" is for the sake of others who have their own opinions of death or of the situation. so it is up to the widow ..there's no official time period. and i don't believe it reflects on the marriage she had.
Answer #21 | 30/10 2015 13:33
Go out and meet people, but don't go for something serious. While it is unfortunate that your husband died, the carnage he left behind was quite a lot. This time around, be more picky in choosing your next husband.
Answer #22 | 30/10 2015 12:41
If you feel ready, then you could try it. Just be careful with yourself. If you start suspecting your new boyfriends of cheating or picking fights with them because something they did reminds you of your late husband, then you will know that you aren't ready yet. Sorry for your loss, even if your marriage wasn't perfect, you must have had some love for him.
Answer #23 | 30/10 2015 12:38
Too soon for a serious relationship, but have some fun.
Answer #24 | 30/10 2015 13:07
It is not a matter of whether or not you were happy with him. It is a matter of how much YOU have cleared away YOUR inner issues. Honey, if you married a man who was a bad spouse, it is because YOUR unconscious knew this and deliberately chose him. This makes no conscious sense to us, but we can hold negative views about us deep in our brain that we are not consciously aware of .. and THAT is what causes our attraction. So if you chose a bad man for a husband, the NEXT man you choose will ALSO be a bad man. UNTIL you face and resolve your unconscious issues that are causing you to pick men who will not treat you well Doesn't matter whether you wait 3 months or 3 decades ... as long as you still have these unconscious issues you will continue to pick only men who make you miserable. I suggest you take your time getting some therapy instead, to resolve these issues.
Answer #25 | 30/10 2015 13:31
It's my opinion that 3 months should be an adequate amount of time to show your respect for your late hubby. You may want to be a bit discrete about starting a new relationship for a while just to keep people from making negative comments.
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Answer #32 | 30/10 2015 13:37
you should not worry about convention.... just stat dating and ,live your life how you see fit.
Answer #33 | 30/10 2015 14:05
Perfectly acceptable, considering.
Answer #34 | 30/10 2015 12:42
This is no longer the old days when a widow or widower had to wait a certain period to get involved again. You can date again as soon as you feel comfortable in doing so.Good luck. When you are ready. You need to make sure that you are not just acting out, or rebounding. You need to fully come to terms with your grief on your own, and then you can become involved with someone. Otherwise you run the risk of everyone getting hurt. So yeah no time frame can tell you when you are ready. Only you will know that, but make sure you give yourself lots of time to heal. I am sorry for your loss, and best of luck for your future.That means pretty much recovered from the loss and not making poor choices. this might sound weird, but the way i see it is that..the spouse who died is not coming back. the only reason to "wait" is for the sake of others who have their own opinions of death or of the situation. so it is up to the widow ..there's no official time period. and i don't believe it reflects on the marriage she had.
Answer #35 | 30/10 2015 14:11
Whenever you feel like you are ready, noone can answer that but you. Dont let others try to influence you to something you may or may not be ready for. And if you do try dating and dont feel comfortable, there is your answer.
Answer #36 | 30/10 2015 17:16
No it's not. You are allowed to move on with your life and there is no where written you have to wait a certain amount of time to start dating someone else. It's not disrespectful just very personal and entirely up to you of how you want to live your life. Don't feel guilty either. Hope this helps? Good luck
Answer #37 | 30/10 2015 12:37
no. you don't have to put your life on hold because you're a widow. try to be more careful this time, and select someone with good character.
Answer #38 | 02/11 2015 11:43
All that matters is if you feel you are ready.
Answer #39 | 30/10 2015 14:20
that is solely up to you. if you feel like it is time to date then do that. if you had a bad marriage there is no reason to pretend that you are mourning when you are not. you have a life to live so live it.
Answer #40 | 30/10 2015 15:38
My answer NO not because it is wrong but you asked the question means you are not ready -- and WORSE you made excuses - Excuses are the biggest problem in all relationships do not date until you stop making excuse for all things, and that include money and spending if that is a problem one part of that is,, do what you know is right and stop worrying about what people think or feel But I would say,, what is in the past is in the past -- do not bring the bad things up anymore confession is not good for the soul or relationships no matter what the hippies and priest say
Answer #41 | 30/10 2015 17:02
Nope, the fact that he cheated, forget it and date ASAP, do if for your happiness
Answer #42 | 30/10 2015 17:05
If you have to ask then its too soon.

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