Is it ok for my fiance to discuss our personal "issues" with his mom?

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  • Is it ok for my fiance to discuss our personal "issues" with his mom?


Answer #1 | 30/12 2013 01:17
question.. how personal is he telling her the positions hes gonna use on the wedding night if so no thats okay just dont overreact if shes in the room giving you both tips
Answer #2 | 30/12 2013 04:07
No it's not OK. She doesn't need to know what's going on in your personal life.
Answer #3 | 30/12 2013 01:19
No, its your personal matter, don't involve 3rd person in it. It can create misunderstanding. Try to solve by yourself.
Answer #4 | 30/12 2013 01:18
I would think so. Think about all the personal things you have ever trusted with YOUR mom, and only your mom. She is the person he trusts, and everyone should have the right to have someone to vent to.
Answer #5 | 30/12 2013 05:19
No, it shows a lot of immaturity and doesn't bode well for after you get married, your issues are between the two of you and you don't need to have someone else's input.
Answer #6 | 30/12 2013 05:34
No, it isn't. Talk with him and tell him that your personal stuff is to be kept between the two of you.
Answer #7 | 31/12 2013 13:25
no not to anyone. this will cause more problems than the issues he is talking about what goes on in your house,stays in your house
Answer #8 | 30/12 2013 16:46
Depends. Is he discussing them with you? Seems the two of you should work out your own issues rather than him going to his mother with them.
Answer #9 | 30/12 2013 06:30
He's not ready to get married, and you may not want to marry him ever if this is how he deals with everything.
Answer #10 | 30/12 2013 05:53
No. His mom's just getting his side of the story, and she's already got a bias toward him. So even if she's trying to be helpful, odds are whatever advice she gives is just going to reinforce the notion that he's right and your concerns don't need to be taken seriously. Tell him that personal issues need to remain personal, and ask him to go to premarital counseling with you so you can learn how to resolve conflicts together. If he won't, then rethink whether this is really the guy you want to marry.

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