move out, NOW.
with your girlfriend is fine, for now.
start going to Al-anon.
at least weekly - 3 times a week would be better.
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/local-meetings
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Answer #2 | 23/12 2013 18:10
get a guidence counciler to talk to her if you want to fix your mom. but if you just want to go away live with your friend for a bit and whenever she wants alone time tell her she can have it. then when you have enough money move into a apartment. there's also one-room apartments that go for 450-500 dollars or just share one with a friend to split the price. good luck!!