I want to leave my boyfriend but I found out I'm pregnant what do I do?

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  • I want to leave my boyfriend but I found out I'm pregnant what do I do?


Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 19:09
I think leaving him would mess you up even more. What's he supposed to do while you decide... well what is it about yourself you think you need fix anyway. He fell in love with the person you are NOW and not that woman you want to become... I think THAT would be a mistake.
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Answer #2 | 23/12 2013 19:10
Sounds to me like you need to keep this guy and see if he can help you through these problems, take care of yourself and start thinking whats in the best interest for your baby. The best interest for this baby is for both of the parents to be together if they love each other and are happy with each other. Ultimately its your decision, but i would never leave someone i loved if i had issues, i would ask them for help and support and i would do whatever needs to be done to create a happy environment for me and the baby.
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Answer #3 | 23/12 2013 19:08
You should leave him and get with me. I LOVE pregnant women. Mmmmmmm..
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Answer #4 | 23/12 2013 19:39
Talk to him about it and see what he has to say.
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Answer #5 | 23/12 2013 19:08
You tell him..... i wonder why you feel that becoming pregnant is all your fault, unless it's not his, and he wasn't there? It's not your "fault" and causing a pregnancy takes two people. Don't make yourself the victim.
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Answer #6 | 23/12 2013 19:10
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Answer #7 | 23/12 2013 19:08
Why do you want to break up with him? Because you're insecure about yourself? That's not a great reason to ruin your relationship together especially if you really have feelings for him. And you should tell him about your insecurity and that you're pregnant. See what happens :) goodluck!
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Answer #8 | 23/12 2013 22:34
If you are madly in love with someone, you do NOT leave them. You don't have to leave someone to work on your own issues. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him about the baby.
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Answer #9 | 23/12 2013 19:12
If he's warm, kind, energetic, and sweet, and he's the father of your baby, and if you're madly in love with him, my respectful suggestion is that you tell him what you've told us, tell him you want to get some counseling to improve your self esteem so you can be a better parent, and ask him to go with you, for emotional support and also so he can learn how better to support you in your efforts. Sounds to me like the romance of the century, needing only that you get a bit of repair work done to make it all perfect. You aren't to blame for the things which happened to you long ago, but you are responsible to have the courage to get it patched up.
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