I think I'm in love with someone else...?

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  • I think I'm in love with someone else...?


Answer #1 | 28/12 2013 20:01
Most people develop a crush on someone else at some point. Especially if they have to be away from their partner and have been together for years while they're still really young. So its normal. I can't tell you if you've "fallen" for this new guy. That's up to you to decide whether you're actually in love with him or if its just a big crush. But you need to decide. Speaking from experience - I had been with my boyfriend for 2 years when I developed a big crush on this guy who seemed like everything I ever wanted - we had amazing chemistry, so much in common it was crazy, etc. I never cheated but developed like an emotional affair I guess you could say with this other guy and it definitely hurt my boyfriend and our relationship. I decided to do the "right" thing and stay with my boyfriend. I kicked the other guy out of my life. Well, a year later I've since broken up with my boyfriend - who turned out to be a horrible horrible person. And that other guy - he's still wonderful but now he has a girlfriend. So just think long and hard about your options. If your boyfriend is good to you I'd appreciate that and start avoiding this new guy so you're not tempted. But if you honestly feel like this new guy is the one for you follow your heart but be prepared to suffer any ramifications
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Answer #2 | 28/12 2013 20:01
The thing with dating your best friend is that the situation at times is that you see that it is better to just be best friends with the person than be a couple because that is what happened to my cousin. Do you want to end a 5 year relationship just like that?
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