I have a extreme love and hate complex because of my family?

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  • I have a extreme love and hate complex because of my family?


Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 06:09
Talk to them. Tell them how you feel! they don't know how you feel and maybe if they knew they would change. Its the same with me and after i told my mother how i felt she has been showing more care and love towards me :)
Answer #2 | 24/12 2013 14:43
Maybe you feel indifferent towards them? Thats not hate, you just couldn't care less about them. Clearly this family is a toxic influence on your mental well being. Start seperating yourself from the family picture, who are you? what do you stand for? what are your best qualities? who do you want to be, not become, be? Your family isn't always going to be around, and the worst thing to do is walk around all day, every day with a chip on your shoulder. I don't know your position, but you got to move forward, forget about mending ties with your family, if you have done no wrong, be the black sheep, be the anti-social deviant, be you. They should be the ones that reconnect, simply put (and i know this from experience) when something goes wrong in the family, someone gets sick or on their deathbed or in trouble, people tend to see the light and want to mend broken ties. The decision is yours whether you remake those ties or severe them completely. Bro, your life is your life, get out of there asap, or its going to get worst and corrupt your soul as well as your mind. Find something you are good at and pursue it with all your heart, you don't need others to pat you on the back, thats why you got two hands of your own. peace out.

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