I feel like I abandoned my ex?

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  • I feel like I abandoned my ex?


Answer #1 | 19/12 2013 21:45
This may sound a little harsh. I think that you should let him be sad for a little while... Not to hurt his feelings or get revenge, but to let him feel what happens when you do cheat. Just don't involve yourself with him. Let him bring himself out of this. If he still seems the same or worse after a couple more weeks It probably wouldn't hurt to have a heart to heart. Tell him he is a good person, but that he was wrong for doing what he did. Or something like that.
Answer #2 | 19/12 2013 21:48
He chose to make the decision he cheat. He is suffering the consequences of his choice. If he feels sad or is lonely, that's his choice. It wasn't difficult for him to find another woman to cheat with. Should you be helping him? Do what? Enable him to feel that cheating is okay because you'll get over it and all he has to do is say sorry or look sad and it's all okay again? You are not his mother, you don't have to give sonny boy some attention and keep him amused. He knows how to amuse himself. He did it when he was with you. Don't forget that.
Answer #3 | 20/12 2013 14:34
What would you help with? I don't understand. He made his bed, now he has to lay in it. If he valued your relationship, he'd never have cheated in the first place. You are making the right decision for yourself, it seems. Live your life. He will be fine.

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