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I do not really like my father in law. I don't really know him but have no desire to bond, advice?

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Answer #1 | 05/01 2014 12:22
If you don't work and he doesn't then I think you should start looking for something to do outside the house, spending time with your father in law could make you go crazy. Unless you and your husband could rent a place alone in the same town, so that your husband is close to his parents and could see them anytime he wants, but also has his privacy with you that you used to have in the past.
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Answer #2 | 05/01 2014 12:33
Look, for some reason you and your husband decided to live with his parents. I bet that wasn't their fault! Buck up, dear. You are a grown up now. Do extra housework, extra cooking, smile, and find something to do in that little town to contribute and save your sanity. Work, volunteer, contribute. Create. Help out. Make it a point for this period of your life to seek ways to improve the lives of those in your orbit. You for them.. not them for you. Try it. Try hard at it. It is NOT "natural" that the people around you need to put up with and cater to your "moodiness" while you are a guest in their home. All that suggests is that you are not a gracious house guest. And I bet you two are living there for free too. Find something to do. Get busy.

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