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How to help 19 year old daughter in an unhealthy year long relationship?

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Answer #1 | 30/12 2013 04:03
Your kid probably has a low self esteem. Please boost her self-esteem when she does something right or well. Try and do various activities. Go to Youtube and get some DIY jewelery making videos for her and make things together. Bond with her in a better way. Appreciate her. Encourage her to join a club or Gym so that she can find out there is other fish in the pond. Tell her how she deserves to be treated. Encourage her to value herself and to walk away from people who don't value her. Find out a way to catch this young man red handed if he is dating some other girl. Always tell her that in this or any other relationship, "bedroom" has to be the last place if the guy is genuine, he won't insist. Instead, he will wait. Good luck. lots of power to u god bless u.
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Answer #2 | 28/12 2013 22:55
Some lessons are better learn on her own. I am 17 and was in a year long relationship similar to what your daughter's going through and my mom telling me at the time that he was no good only put a wedge between her and I because I expected so much more from my at the time bf. It take time to realize that people aren't who you thought they were and its a painful realization she will have come to herself. The best thing you can do is to be there for her after it all comes to an end, but will go off to college and become consumed with college new people, friends, and large excessive amounts of homework that will help distract her mind. I hope it works out I know not getting involved is hard because you love her but it could hurt your relationship with her more than help at this point. give her time.
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Answer #3 | 28/12 2013 22:39
Nothing you say is really gonna change her heart. She has to see for herself that she is worth way more. And although you hate to see her in pain...you know a broken heart is gonna happen one day. Its up to her to figure that out before she gets hurt.
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