How to handle abusive girlfriend?

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Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 08:34
You need to videotape the next event and show her how she's acting, you said bipolar and that might be an issue as well. I'd show her the tape and tell her, until she gets this under control you will have to distance yourself, otherwise one of you will be going to jail her for hurting or even killing you or you for defending yourself which you have every right, woman or not. She has more issues than the NY Times and until she accepts that she has a problem and deals with it, there's no future.
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Answer #2 | 22/12 2013 22:06
Ask yourself if you really want to be with somebody who has the potential to physically hurt you someday. It sounds like with her, it's not a matter of if, but when. You obviously care about her, so take a moment when she's sober to seriously talk to her about the strain it's putting on your end of things. Don't take any of her puppy eyes or excuses - alcoholics never want to take responsibility for the things they do. Be firm, and don't say anything you aren't going to commit to 100%.
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Answer #3 | 24/12 2013 12:32
Honestly, I don't think you do anything. If she doesn't want help, she can't be helped. Take advantage of your break overseas to break up with her for good.
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Answer #4 | 22/12 2013 22:06
you cant help her, she has to want and get the help. As long as you put up with her, she doesnt have to do anything different. And id bet shes on pills. Mixed with drinking can make somebody not know what theyre doing.
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Answer #5 | 23/12 2013 07:52
Is this a joke? I'd end the relationship and refuse to speak to them again until they admitted they needed help and went to some sort of substance abuse program
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Answer #6 | 22/12 2013 22:38
She is unfit to be a girl friend for anyone as she lacks common sense. Dump her and keep her away.
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Answer #7 | 23/12 2013 07:31
This is grounds for a break up. Period. You deserve better and she will never ever get better as long as you are around to enable her.

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