FIND THE ANSWERS

How do I get over this?

Answer this question

  • How do I get over this?


Answers

Answer #1 | 30/12 2013 00:01
Girl I'm having the same instincts about my ex but anyway if he didn't care for you or show respect when you were diagnosed with cancer how was he before the treatment. .but what was it that you truly loved about him so that you couldn't let go ? Life is full of down falls and men come and go at timesv they make the wrong choices and realize that once your gone that's it .. it should've took the fact that your life was on the line for him to begin changing but I do wish the best for you sweetie... remember you can never move on if your stuck revising your past ..
Positive: 50 %
Answer #2 | 30/12 2013 00:08
First of all I'm happy you won your battle against cancer. Now as for the guy, given your situation I can understand how you still have feelings. But please, you have got to get over him. Have you tried a change of scenery? A vacation somewhere far should help. If you can't take a trip, find a hobby that you love and focus on that. And remember that you need to love yourself. Everyone is their own worst critic and sometimes it is hard for us to be kind to oneself, but you are worth it. Just remember, you beat cancer, you can do ANYTHING!
Positive: 50 %
Answer #3 | 29/12 2013 23:55
let it go, find ways 2 occupy your time
Positive: 50 %
Answer #4 | 30/12 2013 00:05
Time heals all wounds. I'm sorry to hear you went thru such a horrible experience with someone you call a "best friend," at a very difficult time in your life, when in all honesty, he is "not" your best friend, he is barely a friend. The fact that you realize he wasn't there for you when you needed him the most, is a pretty good indication that this loser, doesn't belong with someone like you. Try to find friends, and family who do care for you, who were there for you, and call them to hang out with you, also find activities and things to do that you never did with him. Like drive to a different mall, or go to a new movie theater, anything that does not involve a place that you went with him before. I had something similar happen to me once, with an old boyfriend, when I booted him out, my friends and I would check out new restaurants, spa places, new theaters, etc. It was fun exploring new places, and at the same time made me forget about him. And sure enough, it worked. Hope it works for you too.
Positive: 50 %

Possible answer