How do I get over my husband lying to me?

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  • How do I get over my husband lying to me?


Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 07:48
Who did he steal the money from? And why isn't he in jail?
Answer #2 | 23/12 2013 07:51
I understand your anger - I recently found out my partner took out a 10000 loan for his father - without telling me, missing payments on our home as his folks needed cash. I was so angry and disappointed. I try really hard to save and budget and work smartly with our money. But I couldn't change what he had done, my anger didn't make the debt go away and so I decided to be much more proactive. Some people just are not as good with cash as others, some people need help. So I said to him what ever is done is done but from now on we do this together, I don't want to make the mistakes his folks made and end up broke and with no further planning like retirement funds etc, so now we plan together we budget together, we saw a financial advisor together to make smart decisions about our future. You can't change what he did nor control what has happened, all you can do is change your reaction to it. Don't think of your wedding day in terms of money, remember the memories. He probably lied to make you happy! Yes it was stupid, but also sweet in a silly way. Read the 5 love languages, loved that book!
Answer #3 | 23/12 2013 08:17
a great book is this ----> I believe this link takes you to the free book in Google books. VERY affective
Answer #4 | 23/12 2013 09:19
There are no books that are going to help you. This is all about looking deep down inside of yourself and figuring out what you are willing to accept. Honestly this is a big deal when we are talking about your future and future happiness. After all if you can't trust him going forward you are never going to be happy. I think you need to dig deep and if this is not the life you want then you need to walk away before it gets worse. If it is the life you want then you have to accept who he is and let the past go.
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