How can I get back at this guy for leading me on?

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  • How can I get back at this guy for leading me on?


Answer #1 | 30/12 2013 04:57
I have been led on recently by a girl, she did the same thing, but I just moved on, we are friends but not as close, my advice for you is to just leave it and move on, time is the best healer, Good luck
Answer #2 | 30/12 2013 04:58
Did he really like you? If not, then there's not much you can do to make him jealous. Even if he did like you, it's hard to make a guy jealous if there wasn't a long lasting relationship, so you'd just be wasting your time. Just do you. Focus on yourself. Do what you'd normally do. And if it in turn actually does make him jealous, then Karma wins. Without you having to put extra time into it.
Answer #3 | 30/12 2013 05:04
You fooled yourself, I'm afraid, and I suspect you are still fooling yourself. All the signals that this guy didn't care about you were there, you just chose to ignore them. Now you think that there are things you could do to make him jealous. But if he never cared about you in the first place, then nothing you can do will make him jealous, and if you CAN make him jealous, then he was never leading you on and he still has unresolved feelings for you, which means you have to become the sort of person who you you think hurt you in the first place in order to get your revenge. Your desire for revenge has no logic behind it, just rage.
Answer #4 | 30/12 2013 05:12
IMO- you were given the best advice, so just let it go and leave him to Karma. Let me give you this advice also - the best revenge is to live. What I mean is (and speaking from experience) is to go on with your life, enjoy it, forget about him, and find another. In my situation, I divorced but instead of making my ex happy in the fact that he no longer had to be burdened with a weak, winey, crying, curled up in a ball ghost of a woman, he was miserable in the fact that he could only say "what in the heck was I thinking of when I took her for granted?" I made it a point of first pretending he did not exist, doing my hair up, putting on a beautiful face, laughing, being happy, and welcoming the attention I was getting from others. He only saw a strong confident desired woman when he saw me. I ignored him and his feeble attempts to get my attention back. KARMA!!! Don't waste another minute of your time on him. While you are obsessing over him, he is out having the time of his life, happy in the fact that you and others allowed him to use you and thinking how great he is that you are still worried about him. I will bet that onceyou stop paying attention to him, he will do anything to get it back. DONT give it to him. He had his chance, showed you what he was made of, blew it, and now you move on. Save all your energy for someone who deserves what you have to give. He doesn't deserve anything else from you - don't you dare give it to him. Good luck to you.

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