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How can I become more comfortable showing physical affection towards my boyfriend?

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Answer #1 | 30/12 2013 04:06
If you can talk to him without a problem then tell him how you feel. If you are "firsts" then you both on equal ground so to speak. Give him a hug and rest your head on his shoulder, and let him make some sort of move towards you. However, because of your age, you need to set bounaries.
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Answer #2 | 30/12 2013 04:09
The fact that he respects you and your boundaries AND the fact that you hug, cuddle and hold hands, is already a great start :) Be encouraged by that thought alone. Also, do yourself a favour: don't worry so much all the time about doing something wrong. It'll just make you anxious and, really, it sounds like you have nothing to be afraid of. He seems like a good guy. As for what you can do, how about trying the exact same things he's doing and working from there? Or, better yet, just ask him what HE might like? A pat on the back, a hug on the arm, a gentle stroke on his cheek, etc. are all nice, too :) I know it sounds intimidating and scary, but it'll be worth it. Step out of your comfort zone and try to ask him what he might like. Again, however, know your boundaries and respect his. Don't ever take it personally if he ever says he doesn't like something. It just means he TRUSTS you. And don't EVER be afraid to tell him if he's going to far. It means you trust him. That's a good thing. Be brave! :)
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