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Family Issues, what do I do?

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Answer #1 | 29/12 2013 21:41
Oh dear, sincerely i don't know what to say. Once you finish college, you'll have all your time to be together, in your own house. Just ask your bf to wait till then. My parents are same as yours. They'll never let me sleep at my guy's place. it's not that they don't trust us or whatever. It's just that even at 30, we remain their kid and they have not been raised with the concept of sleepover, etc.. For the New Year eve, i'm sure it's important for your family to have you with them. Ask your bf to come to your place on this day. Good luck
Answer #2 | 29/12 2013 21:57
Im sorry,this is a tough one!my instinct says to do as your parents wish and not disrespect them..as you say they are old school and wont change their views..they are paying for your education,and want you to not do certain things as they feel very strongly about it..your b.f.needs to respect this as well and STOP pressuring you! When you complete school and they are not paying your bills,then you can and should do what you want!good luck,you sound like an awsome girl!
Answer #3 | 29/12 2013 21:59
Solution is simple . . . boy friend has got good job and money, right? Marry boyfriend, move into a nice little apartment where you two can make your own rules as you should and begin your lives together. He works hard gets you through school and there you go . . . living happily ever after! Everybody's parents are happy. You're happy. Might be a bit more difficult but that's what growing up is -- making right choices, doing responsible things and enjoying the privileges thereof.

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