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Do you LOVE ALL OF YOUR FAMILY. or have a grudge against some?

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  • Do you LOVE ALL OF YOUR FAMILY. or have a grudge against some?


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Answer #1 | 24/07 2016 12:27
You can't choose your family. Some people are born into close families, others have to contend with a range of issues. What can happen is a family, although dysfunctional can get along okay until someone marries into the family. It is not unusual to have the new family member find fault with dysfunctional behavior and for the whole family unit to come crushing down. I don't hold a grudge to any of my family members, I think you have to look at what can make a family fall apart and grudges are one of the reasons. Normally it is because of dysfunctional or unacceptable behavior that is the nail in the coffin.
Positive: 75 %
Answer #2 | 23/07 2016 18:44
I hate my whole family and if I had the chance I would kill them all, with a gun. Like BOOM, headshot *****....now you can't ******* speak or yell at me anymore *****
Positive: 66.666666666667 %
Answer #3 | 24/07 2016 10:34
I have grudges against every single member of my family but I love them all anyway
Positive: 66.666666666667 %
Answer #4 | 24/07 2016 19:27
You can't choose your family. Some people are born into close families, others have to contend with a range of issues. What can happen is a family, although dysfunctional can get along okay until someone marries into the family. It is not unusual to have the new family member find fault with dysfunctional behavior and for the whole family unit to come crushing down. I don't hold a grudge to any of my family members, I think you have to look at what can make a family fall apart and grudges are one of the reasons. Normally it is because of dysfunctional or unacceptable behavior that is the nail in the coffin.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #5 | 23/07 2016 20:30
No, I don't. If you don't treat me well, I don't love you. Just because you're "family" doesn't make them treat you well. Some treat you worse just because they assume they can get away with it.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #6 | 23/07 2016 19:45
Yes. We argue but we love each other.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #7 | 24/07 2016 00:22
I have family members I honestly wish would just disappear
Positive: 50 %
Answer #8 | 26/07 2016 03:55
I love all my family AND I have a grudge against some... If I didn't love my family why would I waste time holding a grudge against any...
Positive: 50 %
Answer #9 | 24/07 2016 06:03
I love them all, but also don't trust them especially my brother. He molested me as a child and then when our Dad died, my brother went to my Dad's house the same night and took everything of value!!
Positive: 50 %
Answer #10 | 24/07 2016 11:42
I have a grudge against my brohter. He is an angry bully who my mother thinks is the best thing ever invented. He knows this and can do no wrong. He is still a mummy's boy and tells tales on me at the grand age of 48! He thinks he can steal my things and thinks he is in charge. Of course my mother made him executor of the will so I will be fighting him for what is rightly mine, oh the joy.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #11 | 24/07 2016 15:40
I don't love or have a grudge against them but I think if we were not blood related we would never met
Positive: 50 %
Answer #12 | 25/07 2016 23:48
Not all of us are born into perfect families and that's just how it's gonna be. I love my entire family most of the time but sometimes I hold a grudge against them. It happens. Sometimes you can hold a grudge against your entire family of sometimes just one or two people. If you are holding a grudge against them, that's perfectly normal. But try and see their point of view. Try to forgive them. A family in which everyone is happy with each other is always better than a family that's distant and cold with each other.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #13 | 23/07 2016 19:47
Grudge mostly. I'm a lone wolf pretty much
Positive: 50 %
Answer #14 | 23/07 2016 19:48
Love all of them
Positive: 50 %
Answer #15 | 23/07 2016 21:21
My family will throw me off a bridge if they can
Positive: 50 %
Answer #16 | 23/07 2016 19:51
I love my Mom to death. I havent spoken to my dad or sister in 15 years....they have major suckage. Their highly manipulative and live to play mind games....I have no patience for all of that.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #17 | 23/07 2016 20:02
I bear ill will towards all living members of my family, but that is how their mothers ordained it to turn out. Therefore, neither I nor they in all likelihood, claim or uphold any relatedness between us.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #18 | 23/07 2016 20:59
my siblings do not deserve my company or my love. It is not about holding a grudge it is about being horribly mistreated. I will not spend time with people who have done me wrong.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #19 | 23/07 2016 21:12
I wouldn't wish my family on my worst enemy.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #20 | 23/07 2016 20:39
Depends on the situation. I mean you can't choose family blood wise but distancing yourself from probably influential family members who influence you in the wrong way is always a good action to take. I love my my family even the ones I don't get a long with. I just don't communicate with them at all. Out of sight, out of my life out, of drama is what I think. So I guess yes love my family members but just ignore the ones I just don't get along with. But on the other hand there is the saying "Family isn't always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who will do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what. That's family"
Positive: 50 %
Answer #21 | 23/07 2016 19:48
I love all of them but sometimes have a argue not grudge.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #22 | 23/07 2016 19:49
No comment
Positive: 50 %
Answer #23 | 23/07 2016 19:53
Yes I do love all of my family we all get on really well ,
Positive: 50 %
Answer #24 | 23/07 2016 20:08
I love all of my family inspite of. Thats blood
Positive: 50 %
Answer #25 | 24/07 2016 03:21
I'm retired and one of 6 kids. I'm second to the youngest. Our mother died long ago and our father remarried and we all split and went our separate ways as soon as we were old enough. Cutting to the chase, I get along very well with younger sis, but the rest of them? No. I don't dislike them, but it seems that all they do is argue and start fights and bring up past hurts, etc. I do not have a relationship with any of the older ones. If they should call, that's fine but we don't get together. I have my own family now and a very full life. I guess I feel that if we weren't related, I wouldn't be friends with them, so there is no reason to try to stay close and be miserable.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #26 | 23/07 2016 13:59
my siblings do not deserve my company or my love. It is not about holding a grudge it is about being horribly mistreated. I will not spend time with people who have done me wrong.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #27 | 24/07 2016 08:40
I don't love or have a grudge against them but I think if we were not blood related we would never met
Positive: 50 %
Answer #28 | 25/07 2016 16:48
Not all of us are born into perfect families and that's just how it's gonna be. I love my entire family most of the time but sometimes I hold a grudge against them. It happens. Sometimes you can hold a grudge against your entire family of sometimes just one or two people. If you are holding a grudge against them, that's perfectly normal. But try and see their point of view. Try to forgive them. A family in which everyone is happy with each other is always better than a family that's distant and cold with each other.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #29 | 25/07 2016 20:55
I love all my family AND I have a grudge against some... If I didn't love my family why would I waste time holding a grudge against any...
Positive: 50 %
Answer #30 | 24/07 2016 02:44
i don't have a family they are utter scum their dead to me i only have my adopted parents who are my real mother and father
Positive: 50 %
Answer #31 | 24/07 2016 04:42
I have a grudge against my brohter. He is an angry bully who my mother thinks is the best thing ever invented. He knows this and can do no wrong. He is still a mummy's boy and tells tales on me at the grand age of 48! He thinks he can steal my things and thinks he is in charge. Of course my mother made him executor of the will so I will be fighting him for what is rightly mine, oh the joy.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #32 | 23/07 2016 20:21
I'm retired and one of 6 kids. I'm second to the youngest. Our mother died long ago and our father remarried and we all split and went our separate ways as soon as we were old enough. Cutting to the chase, I get along very well with younger sis, but the rest of them? No. I don't dislike them, but it seems that all they do is argue and start fights and bring up past hurts, etc. I do not have a relationship with any of the older ones. If they should call, that's fine but we don't get together. I have my own family now and a very full life. I guess I feel that if we weren't related, I wouldn't be friends with them, so there is no reason to try to stay close and be miserable.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #33 | 23/07 2016 18:20
No , I don’t like all of my family member and there are some reasons behind of it.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #34 | 23/07 2016 18:46
Most, But some have Sticky Fingers and i wont let them in my house,
Positive: 50 %
Answer #35 | 23/07 2016 19:16
I have quite a large family. My Gran has so many sisters and a brother (so many sister I don't know, I think 7). A couple of the emigrated to Australia and Canada, so I rarely see them, if at all. The family members in the UK I see all the time. I love all my family members that I have met. Those that I haven't I don't love them because it's impossible to love someone that you've never seen, spoke to or met.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #36 | 23/07 2016 19:44
i don't have a family they are utter scum their dead to me i only have my adopted parents who are my real mother and father
Positive: 50 %
Answer #37 | 23/07 2016 13:39
Depends on the situation. I mean you can't choose family blood wise but distancing yourself from probably influential family members who influence you in the wrong way is always a good action to take. I love my my family even the ones I don't get a long with. I just don't communicate with them at all. Out of sight, out of my life out, of drama is what I think. So I guess yes love my family members but just ignore the ones I just don't get along with. But on the other hand there is the saying "Family isn't always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who will do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what. That's family"
Positive: 50 %
Answer #38 | 23/07 2016 17:22
I have family members I honestly wish would just disappear
Positive: 50 %
Answer #39 | 24/07 2016 01:20
No , I don’t like all of my family member and there are some reasons behind of it.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #40 | 24/07 2016 01:44
I hate my whole family and if I had the chance I would kill them all, with a gun. Like BOOM, headshot *****....now you can't ******* speak or yell at me anymore *****
Positive: 50 %
Answer #41 | 24/07 2016 01:46
Most, But some have Sticky Fingers and i wont let them in my house,
Positive: 50 %
Answer #42 | 24/07 2016 02:16
I have quite a large family. My Gran has so many sisters and a brother (so many sister I don't know, I think 7). A couple of the emigrated to Australia and Canada, so I rarely see them, if at all. The family members in the UK I see all the time. I love all my family members that I have met. Those that I haven't I don't love them because it's impossible to love someone that you've never seen, spoke to or met.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #43 | 23/07 2016 23:05
I love some but I have so many that I cant STAND because they are always into some kind of drama!
Positive: 50 %
Answer #44 | 23/07 2016 17:38
I don't love anyone in my family because I only have one relative that is still alive. I don't hold grudges anymore. However, I won't waste my time with a relative who hasn't bothered to contact me to see if I am okay and alive since 1990. Besides, I was never close to anyone in my small family.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #45 | 23/07 2016 12:51
I love my Mom to death. I havent spoken to my dad or sister in 15 years....they have major suckage. Their highly manipulative and live to play mind games....I have no patience for all of that.
Positive: 50 %
Answer #46 | 24/07 2016 03:34
I have grudges against every single member of my family but I love them all anyway
Positive: 50 %
Answer #47 | 24/07 2016 06:47
I have a few grudges because some of my family members are monsters
Positive: 50 %
Answer #48 | 24/07 2016 00:38
I don't love anyone in my family because I only have one relative that is still alive. I don't hold grudges anymore. However, I won't waste my time with a relative who hasn't bothered to contact me to see if I am okay and alive since 1990. Besides, I was never close to anyone in my small family.
Positive: 33.333333333333 %
Answer #49 | 23/07 2016 23:03
I love them all, but also don't trust them especially my brother. He molested me as a child and then when our Dad died, my brother went to my Dad's house the same night and took everything of value!!
Positive: 33.333333333333 %
Answer #50 | 23/07 2016 19:46
no, some of very religious. I am not religious and some family members have an issues with that
Positive: 33.333333333333 %

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