Boyfriend's RP life and times - is this acceptable?

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Answer #1 | 22/12 2013 21:26
You are dealing with quite a lot, and if you want to make it work, he has to contribute as well. It seems that the relationship is kind of one sided and it's you who is pulling all the weight. What I've noticed with people who live in this fantasy world, it's because their real world is not interesting enough and it seems he has the mental issues and not you. If he has another "love interest" in his Rp world then yes it is cheating. There is nothing wrong with escaping reality here and there but it seems his fantasy world is consuming his real life and impacting his relationships in a negative matter. If it was me I would give him the choice.. You or his fantasy life. It's a tough situation but I don't like how he is hiding this fantasy world from you. Suggest that he see someone about his mental issues and that your anxiety is triggered from his hidden agendas and is driving you nuts! Sorry you have to deal with this, I hope everything works out for you.

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