Am I loosing him? Distance issues?

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  • Am I loosing him? Distance issues?


Answer #1 | 31/12 2013 03:31
sounds like you've allready lost him
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Answer #2 | 31/12 2013 03:50
While he cares about what you want, he also has to think about what would make him happy. Perhaps a job in your city or living in your city, wouldn't make him happy. Maybe a part of him has always wanted to work/live in London, you never know. Sometimes, it comes to that point where you have to do what is best for you, despite how it affects the people you love. It sounds selfish, but it's not intended that way. I think you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Ask him why he doesn't want to apply to jobs in your city and why he chose a location that is going to be difficult for you to visit, let alone live in. I'm going to be honest here and you might not want to hear my answer, but it's all I can really say: long distance relationships rarely ever work out. Sure you see each other every now and then, but that's not really enough. Both people have to put forth the effort into making it work and he seems to be lacking the effort. It might be time for you two to call it quits if he doesn't start putting in more effort.
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