Why does this guy I'm dating wants me to need him so much?

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  • Why does this guy I'm dating wants me to need him so much?


Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 03:49
He's doing that because he wants you to care more. He threatens to leave you when he's not actually planning to, just so you would care more and beg him to stay. If you show him that you want him to stay then he'll know you don't want to lose him. Most of time people do that because they feel that the relationship is one-sided and that the other person isn't into them much
Positive: 82 %
Answer #2 | 23/12 2013 03:49
He is a jerk.. Find someone better..
Positive: 76 %
Answer #3 | 23/12 2013 03:50
he loves u n wnts u to feel d same
Positive: 56 %
Answer #4 | 23/12 2013 03:59
You need to leave him. It's obviously hurting him how little you care about his feelings.
Positive: 24 %
Answer #5 | 23/12 2013 03:59
He is trying to control you. Find someone who is more secure. If you stay with him, it may get worse (the controlling). Find someone that loves you so much that He died on the cross so our sins could be forgiven and we could be made righteous in the eyes of God. That man is Jesus. Jesus will never leave you nor forsake you if you come to him. He is to be our eternal spouse (to all believers) once our physical life is over. So, spend some time getting to know Him by reading the Bible (I suggest Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John first) and then do what He says and pray to Him thanking Him for what He has done for you. God Bless
Positive: 10 %
Answer #6 | 23/12 2013 04:07
I was in a relationship that went the same way I'm a guy and I did the same to her and I regret doing it but yeah I was trying to find out if she was for real and I still love her and I don't think she realised how much ,but I broke it off cause she always talked about other guys and if we were out somewhere and mingling in a club or bar she gets really flirty with other man and she denies doing it she says that the way she is but if your in a relationship with a man you make him feel like a man not every other guy a lot of women do this and your guy just wants you to make him feel like number 1 to you ,I gave up a lot to be with my ex my family was unhappy but I didn't listen to my family because she was to important to me and even now still no real contact with my family and she didn't take in to account what I had sacrificed for her and even her mother would talk about these other rich guys my age but much better off and saying they were single and she could set it up for them to meet like is was just a nice thing to do and they would be nice freinds and I thought that's just crazy and I never seen my family but I had to be constantly waiting on hand and foot for her family it's a joke women don't see what they are doing to a good relationship if she could just treat me like a man and make me feel loved and needed it would of been fine , but I can't live a lie. If you don't want to be with some one just tell them be honest.
Positive: 10 %
Answer #7 | 23/12 2013 09:10
he probably wants to know he's the only one for u, that u can't live without him etc. he probably feels like he needs that kind of attention from u bcs he's insecure and he's afraid that he's not good enough for u, which is a shame. Is he controling or something? because that would be typical for a guy like this please answer mine, i really need help! 1rFlE
Positive: 10 %

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