Was I right to be upset about this?

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  • Was I right to be upset about this?


Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 07:50
if he's flirting with other girls then... you have to get evidence and blackmail him and then see how smoozy he is to your co-workers now. You could even tell his wife and let him have it. She'll hate him and maybe even end up loving you, the tables have turned my friend, the tables have turned. But try and get video footage/pictures and possibly as many as possible. make sure to have backups incase he finds one before you have the chance to show them around. Even show them to your boss, get him fired, unless he's the boss haha. good luck
Positive: 85 %
Answer #2 | 23/12 2013 07:52
I fvcked her too. It wasn't that great.
Positive: 79 %
Answer #3 | 23/12 2013 07:52
I think you need to grow a pair and gtf over it!
Positive: 59 %
Answer #4 | 23/12 2013 07:53
You are a young man and its absolutely normal to feel hurt because your HUMAN. Even Jesus wept. The other guy is an obvious loser to say things like that to your face so dont worry about him because his mistakes will catch up to him and blow up in his face. If you can express your true feelings to that girl and wish her well if she's with someone. Tell her all the stuff that was going on but do wish her the best in her new relationship. Take care and God Bless.
Positive: 27 %
Answer #5 | 23/12 2013 07:55
It seems like you formed some sort of attachment to this girl, and the truth is, from what you say, she doesn't make very good choices..... so you're probably better off moving on. It may take a while to get through it, but you will look back and be glad you moved away from the situation with her. My best advice is to get out and do things - with family and friends, if possible! And meet new people, even if it's just to meet them, and share lunch or coffee or a walk. Making new friends usually leads to meeting more people, and more invitations to do things. It's tough when we are a bit heart broken -- i think we have all been there at least once or twice! You take care.
Positive: 10 %
Answer #6 | 23/12 2013 07:56
Sounds like my ex husband, lol... Guys like that really need a reality check. Personally I'd stop hanging out with him and find a better job. This guy is on an ego trip and you are his b.i. t.c.h.... Find your back bone and be the better man because in the end, you'll have the happy home and he will be alone.
Positive: 10 %
Answer #7 | 23/12 2013 07:56
I think it's only normal but you have to let it go. You had your chance and you told her no
Positive: 10 %
Answer #8 | 23/12 2013 09:17
No, because if she was the one then she would have picked you over him. And she was only coming back to you because she didn't like how he was. So basically you were her second choice. Find you a girl who likes you for you and only wants to be with you! As for him, hes not a man. A man who can run around on his wife and kids is no man in my book. and brags about it? really? you are more of a man than he is. Keep your chin up! hope this helps
Positive: 10 %

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