Torn between to men, any advise?

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Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 00:36
You're all very young. Things can change a lot in a short amount of time. You sound like you have your head in the clouds and already talking marriage and kids. How do you know you won't meet another guy you like. You don't have to pick your soulmate right now. Slow down and experience life a while. Date a ton of guys. It's through dating you find out who you are because believe me, you're still a still a work in progress.
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Answer #2 | 23/12 2013 00:37
Doesn't sound like you want to be with either of them. Dump Austin, hang with Leslie, and look for Mr. Right. Just my opinion.
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Answer #3 | 23/12 2013 01:10
It seems like you hardly know both of these men. It probably seems like it will be a long term relationship with either of these people if you do decide to be with either of them. My opinion is to take some time for yourself. Think about what you really want in life and if either of these people will support your dreams and aspirations, men aren't always the answer (at one point in my life I thought they were). Like a previous person said you never know who you will meet and they just might sweep you off your feet. If you feel you must absolutely choose someone then choose the one that you have the most in common with, the one that makes time for you, the one you spend most time with because the less time you spend with someone, the less you know them. The small amount of time that you do spend with them then that is the time that the will be on their best behavior. You have to know the ins and outs of a person before committing long term, otherwise you are in for surprise. Your choice should not be about money or security but about how connected and how comfortable you feel with the person you decide to be with and the rest will follow. Good luck.
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Answer #4 | 23/12 2013 03:12
Two spelling mistakes in your six-word heading alone. Did you EVER go to school at all?
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