Am I lazy or is my mom just impatient?

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  • Am I lazy or is my mom just impatient?


Answer #1 | 23/12 2013 07:04
I'm 16 and have the same sort of thing, then they say I never do anything in the house etc. But I was going to do it. I think its partly you and your mom, your mom shouldn't be taking anger out of you, but you could try help out more. It works both ways. Just say to her that she doesn't have to get so angry about it, and say you are going to help her.
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Answer #2 | 23/12 2013 07:09
Many parents are like this they are not impatient and you are not lazy instead your parents are just trying to teach you to do whatever it is now not later because later on in life you need to make more important decisions and very quickly. Did they know you had locked the door before they threatened to take away the computer? If they didn't they might have thought you are a little obsessed with it because it seems whenever she asked you to do something you asked for a few minutes to finish what you were doing on it my mom used to do that to she would say cant you pause it or something. Your dad probably takes your moms side because he agrees with her and is trying to raise you the right way. And as for when your mom takes her anger out on you try talking to her about it if that doesn't help try talking to your dad about it too and if that doesn't help just ignore it and do what your mom asks she might be stressed out with something ans doesn't know what to do with your anger.
Positive: 88 %
Answer #3 | 23/12 2013 07:10
It is her but also you. My mother and I are the exact same way to each other. I can be really into something and she's like "unload the dishes" "in a second!" and I really do then she goes all angry mom commando. I should help more BUT she should be more patient. It's a two way street.
Positive: 68 %
Answer #4 | 24/12 2013 23:35
Mentally lazy
Positive: 36 %
Answer #5 | 23/12 2013 07:04
I think adults get away with a lot. She didn't have to tell you so many times to do something when she knew you were already gonna do it. My parents do that as well and it drives me crazy. Maybe she wanted you to talk back to her, next time I think you should just do as she says right when she tells you just to drive her crazy. It seems like shes doing that to get a reaction from you. Good luck.
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